Using a person’s preferred name and pronouns is a basic form of respect; however, gender norms often lead to mistakes, especially in medical settings. This was a deeply personal issue for Bennett Kaspar-Williams , a 37-year-old transgender man who gave birth to his son, Hudson, by cesarean section in October 2020. Despite clearly identifying as male and using he/them/his pronouns, hospital staff repeatedly referred to him as “mother,” causing him great emotional distress during an already vulnerable time.

Kaspar-Williams began her gender transition in 2014, after coming out as trans in 2011. Although she underwent breast surgery, she chose to keep her genitals intact, which allowed her to carry a pregnancy to term. While having a child brought her immense joy, the constant gender shift during pregnancy and childbirth made the experience much more difficult. Even with male gender markers on medical forms, the staff’s default assumptions were still anchored in the traditional idea that only women give birth.

Since becoming a father, Kaspar-Williams has spoken about the need to decouple childbirth from gender identity. He emphasizes that not all people who give birth are women, and not all women can or choose to have children. He explained that his pregnancy dysphoria stemmed solely from being labeled as a “mother,” a role he never identified with. For him, the decision to become pregnant only made sense when he was able to mentally separate the physical act of childbirth from societal expectations about femininity.

Her story resonates with that of Freddy McConnell , another trans man who gave birth in 2019 and was the subject of a documentary. McConnell, who has struggled with gender dysphoria since childhood, said transitioning allowed him to fully enjoy life. When he decided to have a baby to maintain a biological bond, he took a pragmatic approach, saying he was using his body’s capabilities to achieve a goal. Unlike Kaspar-Williams, McConnell said the hospital staff was respectful and empathetic, making his birth experience powerful and affirming.

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!! DOCTORS reveal that SWALLOWING your partner’s semen prov… See more

For something that has been a part of human intimacy for millennia, the act of swallowing semen remains shrouded in curiosity, misconceptions, and often, hushed conversation. While it’s a deeply personal decision made within the privacy of a relationship, modern science has, perhaps surprisingly, turned its lens on the subject, seeking to understand its composition and potential effects. Moving beyond myths and hearsay, what do studies actually reveal about swallowing your partner’s semen?

The first step to understanding any potential effects is knowing what semen is made of. Far from being just “sperm,” semen is a complex fluid called seminal plasma, which carries the sperm cells. Produced by various glands in the male reproductive system (seminal vesicles, prostate gland, bulbourethral glands), seminal plasma contains a mix of substances. These include proteins, enzymes, fructose (a sugar providing energy for sperm), minerals like zinc and potassium, hormones (including prostaglandins), and a large amount of water. Think of it less as a concentrated nutrient source and more as a biological transport and support medium.